How to Use BDSM Toys for Beginners

Whether you are curious or looking for a way to spice up your sex life, BDSM toys can certainly bring a totally new perspective to your relationship. Almost everyone has secret wishes about sex, but many keep it quiet. However, those who dared to release their deepest desires and fantasies confirmed their sex is much better.

There are a large number of toys and props on the market for different fetishes, fantasies, and sex preferences. Not all are of equal quality and functionality, so if you do not research the offer, you can end up with poor-quality toys you will never use. So be sure to look for online reviews about the products, brands, and online stores before buying. That way, you can be sure you get what you want for your money.

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Although there are gadgets you can use alone, it is always best to share this pleasure with your partner. There are many ways to play in the bedroom, and some of the gadgets and props from this article may be the ideal choice if you are a BDSM beginner.

Bondage and Restraint Toys

There is some extra thrill in being or restraining someone else from sex. That sweet anticipation of the partner's next move further increases desire and excitement, making the senses that are not restricted even more engaged. Depending on which body part you want to "deactivate," you can use different gadgets.

Must-haves in every BDSM kit are bondage cuffs and ropes. You need them when you want your partner to be submissive and you to dominate (of course, you can switch roles if you wish). Use these props to tie your partner to the bed or put their hands behind their back or above their head. Certainly, you can set these bondages to be more or less restrictive, depending on how hard you play in your bedroom.

If, on the other hand, you want to enjoy the touches, then you can opt for vision restriction, i.e., blindfolds. Several types of collars and harnesses can restrict your head and face, and if you strive for an even more intense BDSM experience, you can try ball gags. Keep in mind there is a special technique for using this prop, so be sure to agree with your partner on some safehold signal when you feel discomfort.

Toys that Boost Sensation

These toys are designed to tease and tantalize specific areas of your or your partner's body. They are something like your extended hand because they stimulate a specific zone that enhances sex pleasure while you deal with more important things.

The most popular sensation toys you can find in every BDSM store are nipple clamps or tweezers. You can find them in varied materials, sizes, shapes, and functions, depending on how deep in BDSM you want to go. Newbies should start with adjustable clamps, which give a certain amount of freedom to start slowing and then gradually increase the pressure on the nipples during sex without being uncomfortable.

For gentle teasing and tickling, if you are just warming up to BDSM play, you can use a bondage tickler or a flogger. These props are an excellent way to tackle your partner's erogenous zone without causing pain. Depending on the sensation intensity you strive for, these can be made of feathers, rubber, or even metal. Gently slide them over your partner's skin and cause different feelings, from goosebumps to pleasurable writhing.

Impact Toys

The choice of these BDSM props will depend on the intensity of impact you want. For lighter and more delicate sensations, you can try floggers. Just drag them around your partner's body, tackling different erogenous zones. These toys can be very soft for a painless experience, but if you want them to be more intense (and you are not prone to bruising), you can try leather ones.

For more intense BDSM foreplay (or play), you can try whips and crops. They work the same way as floggers, only you can use them for light strokes and spanks. Then, you can work your way up to more intense spanks, as long as you are both comfortable with that.

If you are both warmed up for a super-intense BDSM session, do not skip a spanking paddle. As its name says, this toy serves for real spanking, so make sure you both agree on this action before you even start. As paddles are firm and wide, this impact can be harsh. But if that's what you like, check this website for more tips on impact play, and enjoy!

Adding BDSM toys to your intimacy can be a thrilling and enjoyable way to level up your sex life. These props can add excitement, novelty, and a sense of adventure to your relationship. So, if you are ready to explore, get some of these and create a fulfilling and consensual sexual journey.